随心所欲/从心所爱

季度会议中老总重提中层干部的工作原则，才猛然想起我曾把这些条条放到博客上的，

呵呵，，再来看看，有好长时间没有更新了；

回顾2009年，达成了两件年初的意愿：

换了车，很满意。。。。。

买了房，期待收获中。。。

2010年：

将会一门心思的想钱中。。

 

0711进公司

 

1201变动工作范围

 

0701再次变回去

 

 

 

朋友的老婆动一小手术,

本来以为是可以不动手术的,最后想想还是手术吧,一劳永逸嘛

可是到医院诊断后,,以为是恶性肿瘤,因为表面是恶性的症状,,

赶紧切片送上海检测,

在等结果的当口,朋友做好,财富归零,人财两空的打算...

幸运的是,,检测为息肉,而非肿瘤,,

皆大欢喜,,,

可是经历了这一段的曲折,

人生观,或者说生活的态度发生了大的变化,,,

一出院就先美容一下,发型改改,再置些新衣服,对自己也大方多了,,

想开了嘛,,

自己戏说,,在鬼门关前徘徊了一趟,,,

朋友说出了当初的打算,,看在曾经一起奋斗过的日子,人财两空那是自然,,

但是你呢,,,挂掉了,,我也没办法,,到以后再找个小姑娘过日子去,,

其老婆得出一个结论,,,

男人啊,,没一个真心的,,,现如今,,男人的最大梦想就是:

升官,发财,死老婆


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朋友说给我听,,偶无语,,,,,不过,也替他们高兴,,,,,,,

这结论也太偏颇了吧,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

应该的结论是身体健康才是最重要的,,

正所谓平安就是福啊

这是住宿的地方,新建的,就在山林中,,木材的味道还没有去掉,环境一流

依山而建的大别山庄.

天空的云彩,,离山顶是那么的近,

大别山日落,,,景色绝美

在环山中,,偶有这样的小镇....

山里雾蒙蒙

绝好的地势看日落,,,,心情很不错,,,

会议中心,

体验现代的动车时速

好美的大别山庄

 

大别山一景..

 

为期三天的季度会议已落下帷幕,留下了很深的印象,我想这将是我参加会议以来的最记忆犹新的一次了,,

希望再次经历,

只是路程太远了,不然可以组织自驾游,原生态的大别山,风景如画.

也体验了当初刘邓大军挺进大别山的艰辛...

依山而建的大别山庄正好在半山腰的位置,据说,高峰期时一天也不过200多人前来,

很适合休闲游,坐在椅子上静静的看日落,或者约上三两好友,喝酒打牌,聊天,那是享受啊...

 

無事忙中老，空裡有哭笑，本來沒有我，生死皆可拋。

佛教劝人学习放下万缘，不要执着感情，却不是要人无情，因为，人本来就是有情众生，只要把爱情的聚散当成因缘变化来看，明白“缘散则散，缘聚则聚”的道理，爱、恨便能在这一念之间转变、释怀。

只 要是人，就不可能没有感情，佛教称众生为“有情”，就是因为“有爱”的缘故。人活在世界上，除了饮食的养分，还需要精神的滋润，而感情就是最好的精神滋润 剂，因此，感情和生命可说是息息相关的。感情虽然带给人很多温暖，却也充满痛苦。相爱的人，感情浓烈，如胶似漆分不开，一旦爱过了头，或失去了爱，就变成 了苦。也有人以为只要不动情，就不会为爱所苦，这恐怕是一厢情愿的想法，既然情爱和生命息息相关，无论是否定它，或硬生生地把它切断，既不合乎佛法的因 果，也不合乎人情的道理。佛教虽然劝人学习放下万缘，不要执着感情，却不是要人无情，因为人本来就是有情众生。

遇上触礁的爱情

然而，男女间的感情，往往非自己的期待所能控制。

假如有一天，你的女朋友或是男朋友突然跟你说：“对不起！我已经遇到更适合的人，请你以后不要再来找我。”你会不会觉得晴天霹雳？觉得自己被背叛、被抛弃了？

曾有位年轻男子，因为感情触礁，非常痛苦，前来求助于我，他说：“如果是我要离开她，可能就不会这么苦，偏偏是她要离开我，而我不想离开她，所以我就像被判了死刑一样。”

失 恋的人，常常悲观地觉得生不如死：“连我最爱的人都不要我了，我还活下去做什么？”有时候甚至还会骂说：“哼！你不要我，我本来就不想要你了。”或是“真 是有眼无珠。”有时候在报上可以看到，有人为情轻生，结束自己的生命；有人为情杀人，抱着“你让我这样痛苦，我也不让你快活。”或是“我得不到你，天下人 也甭想得到你。”的偏激心理，而把对方杀了，甚至有的在杀了对方之后，自己也跟着自杀。

大多数的人都知道，爱情是双向的，既然如此， 如果对方不爱你，就不要苦苦追求不舍，应该知趣地离开，可是，有些人偏偏就是死心眼，非卿不娶，非君不嫁，不但为对方带来困扰，也让自己陷入困境。话虽这 么说，毕竟人非草木，谁能无情？一般的人，仍常常为情所苦，可见得要放下感情，其实是件很不容易的事。

以因缘观化解爱恨

因爱而生怨、生恨是很不幸的，从佛法的观点来看，这些都是愚痴的行为，因为真正的爱情要双方你情我愿，有因有缘才能成就，不是自己想要就要。

假 使对方已经明白拒绝你的感情，自己却还想尽办法，想把对方追回来，就好像赌输的人一样，心中不服气，老是想翻本，钱输光了就想办法再借，也因而愈陷愈深， 不可自拔。既然知道无法挽回，就不要再陷下去了，应该赶快撤退，就算是以此为戒，至少学到经验，也就够了，这样就是对自己慈悲。慈悲不仅是照顾别人，事实 上，也是在保护自己。

我曾经见过一位女孩，在被男友遗弃时，希望自己能和男友同归于尽，后来，她知道男友早已另结新欢，铁定不可能再回头来爱她，于是便来告诉我，说她已经想通了：“既然因缘如此，为了让自己好好地活下去，就不想痛恨他一辈子了。”

当爱情受到挫折时，应试着化解自己心中的愤怒、不平。像这个女孩所体会到的“因缘”，即是佛法当中“空”的观念，是最能够助人摆脱痛苦的。只要把爱情的聚散当成因缘变化来看，明白“缘散则散，缘聚则聚。”的道理，爱、恨便能在这一念之间转变、释怀。

以尊重的心态经营爱情

曾有位太太向我诉苦：“爱情应该是牺牲自己，奉献他人。我丈夫虽然口里说爱我，却从不奉献他自己，反倒要我奉献给他。我想，既然他不爱我，那我也不要爱他了。”为什么奉献爱情，却还有要求回报的附加条件呢？

照道理说，真正的爱情应该是无私的付出，但是多半的爱情还是以占有、控制为出发点，这和人的不安全感有关，因此，要求情人对你做到全心的奉献，恐怕是很困难的事。也因如此，甜蜜的爱情，却往往是最痛苦的。

期 待、要求，希望得到对方“真心”的对待和付出，可是，这种心是“真心”吗？《金刚经》中有一段话：“如来说诸心，皆为非心，是名为心”，“诸心”是指每一 个众生的种种心理活动现象，这些都是虚妄的，从佛法的观点来看，只要有心，就都不是真心，要“心无所住”，心中无物、无心，那才是“真心”。所以说，占有 心、依靠心、期待心，都不叫“真心”，而是“烦恼心”。

古人说“相敬如宾”虽是老生常谈，却是能够维系长久爱情的真正智慧。如果想避免吵架、误解，或者是想消融不断的期待、要求，在遇到诸如此类的问题时，不妨以尊重的心态，心悦诚服、欢欢喜喜、平平静静去面对、解决，心中的纠结，其实在当下都能即得化解。

爱情里的关系，并不是在互相执着、纠缠和占有，而是互相的贡献、成长和学习。能够互相关怀、照顾、包容，不去彼此计较、相互猜疑，多沟通，并相互信赖，才能成为菩萨伴侣。

别后彼此消失在人海，久了好像我们是陌生人，我们曾经在一起的时光，也像是一个不真实的梦一样!

1.大话西游(山东版)


     蹭警悠一奋枕诚地爱庆放在安面前，安妹有珍习，等安石去的时候俺菜后灰莫即，认世减最痛苦地事莫过预此。尼的剑在俺地演喉上葛下去吧！不用再犹豫 了！入锅上舔能够给安一过宰赖一次的记会，安会对那过女孩子说散过字：安哀你。入锅肥要在这份哀上架上一过旗限，俺习望是。。。一万年！！

　　2.大话西游(陕西版)

　　曾经右倚份真诚地干情拜灾饿面浅，饿莫气拯西，挡饿史气塔地时候，饿干倒后会。人师间贼搭地通酷摸锅愚呲，入过，伤舔给饿挤灰让饿从来椅回地花，饿灰对那个女娃奢：饿哀馁！入过，匪要吧这端干情假伤歌椅接先地花，饿希枉斯。。。椅弯馁!!!

　　3.大话西游(广东版)

　　我知道我好低死，你队霖我都好应该，有份真诚即爱情摆响我面前，我都无好好甘去珍惜，等到后尾先至后悔，人世间最疼就系甘拉，你把剑劈落黎咯，唔使琳 拉，如果个天比多次机会我，我就会同个女仔讲三只字，我爱你，如果一定要响呢份爱上面加翻个日子即话，我希望系一万年！！

　　4.大话西游(四川版)

　　曾经有一个老实八交的堂客摆的老子面前，我不晓得去珍惜，等耍脱了的时候才晓得背时，你的刀刀儿就在我的颈航上割下切嘛，不要再磨了。如果老天可以让老子服二火，我会对哪个堂客说：“你给老子站到”如果她硬是鼓捣要走，我会说“各人爬”。

　　5.大话西游（上海版）

　　老历八早，有一段老刮三的感情摆勒吾的眼门前，碰到赤佬了，吾没去睬伊，等到格段感情窝死空勒以后，吾再晓得奈么这记僵特了，假使讲老天爷令的清让吾 再来一趟，吾勿会神之呜之了，呆卜落笃看伊跑特，吾会帮伊讲吾老欢喜侬额，假使来讲一定要拨伊敲定一段日节，格么吾想随便哪能总归要一万年。

　　6.大话西游（东北版）

　　曾经有一份贼那哈的爱情搁在我跟前儿,我没稀搭理,直到让俺整没了，俺才发现：世上最憋屈的事就是这儿了。如果老天爷再给我一次机会，我会在那丫头面前整四个字:爱老虎油。如果让俺在这爱老虎油后面加个期限的话，我一定存死期的,利息高。

　　7. 大话西游(长沙版)

　　怎津有一份真诚的爱情摆在老子的门口，但四老子冒客珍惜，等到后背才晓得后菲嗒，世上对我最好的就四你嗒，你饮刀砍死我塞，莫想嗒咯，假如天老人嘎给我再一咋机费，我就菲对那咋妹子港：“哦爱你”。要是在该扎上面加一个及汉地法，哦希望四一万年！

　　8. 大话西游(河南版)

　　夜个黑晌有一个可认真嘞感情摆在我嘞蒂脑前头，俺就没想住咋着她，一直到找不着了才急嘞牟法儿。要是老天爷能再叫我给撯丫头给一起哰，俺说啥也得给她弄嘞古堆住、扯住嗓门儿喊仨字－－－俺爱恁！恁要非嘞给俺这话头安个啥时间哰，俺都想住咋着也得一万年去球了！

　　9. 大话西游(潮汕版)

　　我矮知我该死，你胎死我都世应该该。以前有份真诚的爱情帮度我面头前，我无去珍惜，沟后来正想往，世上详惜我该就世你啊，面想了，你用刀胎死我吧。如果上天再客我一该机会，我要对喜该书娘答三该字：“我爱你！”，如果一定要在加上该日期，我希望是一万年！

　　10. 大话西游(扬州版)

　　吾晓得吾要死，你把我杀的都不的话说。以前有有份增自的感情放到了我的面前，我不得当个事，等到过ｋｉ了才晓得后悔，棱四间对我最好的就四你了，干脆 你用刀把我劈的拉倒来，省得麻烦。要四老天咦能再把我一次机会的话，我会对勒够女霞则说：我欢喜你哩！要四非要各哦够期限的话，就耶万年吧！！假说撒？

要有思想,不要当传声筒

要沉下去,不要蜻蜓点水

要做决定,不要光听意见

要让合适的人坐合适的位子!

每一个团队总有先进和落后!

好的团队总有一个好的领导!

与其让人喜欢不如受人尊重!

自己能干也要会求助于他人!

了解客户是一切工作的根本!

让团队成员了解变化的过程!

信息被利用才真正变成资源!

简单数字胜过再精练的语言!

既要循序渐进更要善始善终!

不要用同样的方法对每一人!

不要让僵化的制度埋没人才!

扫帚不到灰尘不会自己跑掉!

是否我把你真正的拥有
可为什么你要离开我远走
说什么风雨同舟天长地久
我是真的一无所有

是否你把我珍藏在心头
可为什么我还一个人独守
说什么生生世世恩爱白头
我却抓不住你的手

看着你静静的远走不曾回眸
我又何必站在这路口
梦里的相思难聚首
落叶飘荡离了枝头

望着你我心里难受无语泪流
你的温柔我不再奢求
往事历历不堪回首
月缺难圆 梦醉西楼

 

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哇,,,竟然快有一个月了没更新啊,,,

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上周末去东山开会,季度会议,还只是一个部门的,希望另一个部门也要开开啊,

其实开会是累的,要准备好资料,而且从早上8点一直开到晚上7点,中午吃饭+休息一个小时,

再就是类似课间十分钟一样的,小便一下,抽根烟,再接着开会,要听着,要提问,要回答问题;

怎一个累字了得,,

还好的是,开完会了,可以放开来喝酒,只是烟带少了,晕,,,竟然口粮不够了,,

习惯性的,在公司聚会性质的酒席上,偶总要控制好自己,要多喝,但还不能喝醉,,,,,,

一人间的宾馆房间,放松心情,看电视看到睡着了,半夜再关掉,,,,,,,,,,,

感觉不错,,,

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天公作美,,,早上还下雨的,,等要到三山岛游玩的时候,天竟然放睛了,,

坐上快艇.直奔三山岛...

巧的是,正好碰上一迎新的队伍,

虽然队伍不大,但是也正好让偶了解了一些当地的习俗,

象吹打之类的,在苏北可能就不是用在婚礼上的

关上门来不让新郎进来倒是各地都有的风俗,不过,也要有个度,

呵呵,,总不能一直不开吧,,

看新郎急得,一会儿跑到这个门,一会儿又想从另一个门进来,

一会儿答应人家的发糖要求,一会儿又是红包的要求,

同事也去抢了些喜糖过来,,

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近来总是做些奇怪之极的梦,,,

醒来方庆幸原来是梦,,,,,,,,,,,

一切正常,,,,,,一切如常,,,,,,,,,

上级说了,不喜欢时不时的开会,只讲大概的工作内容,剩下的就是自己去工作了;

遇到要汇报的事情就是到办公室或电话请示一下就行,

要出差啊,要资源啊,等等都要自己去考虑,

换句话说,没人来给你安排出差,也没人来主动的给你资源;

还好的是,我已适应这样的方式 ,再说了,也是要领导一些人的,总得知道些管理的方式方法吧,,,

可是该到工作汇报的时候,就要拿出点成绩来,

今早一上班就跑到领导办公室去汇报工作,请示下一步的工作,并提出自己的设想..

三月份的工作计划也随即有了初步的轮廓.....

只是还有些阻碍需要我去扫清咯........

该出手了,,,,,,,,,,,,

一姑父,去年十月份查出有症状,开刀动手术,原本以为手术过后就是休养生息,慢慢康复了,,

哪知,,,却往相反的方向去了,自打手术后,身体状况是一天不如一天,,,

元宵节过后三个小时就去了,,,,

永远的去了,,,

接到电话时,我是一愣,怎么就这么快?一点思想准备也没有啊...

急忙处理好手中的工作,请假回去看看,,

老衣,长眠灯,纸钱,花圈,,,,,唉,,,,过年时还跟我聊天谈话的,,就这么的走了,,,

我想他应该有好多的事情没有完成,也有太多的心愿未了,,...毕竟才55岁...

表妹还没有结婚,估计这是他最不放心的一件事吧...

听说,,,其他姑父在抬他下楼的时候,他流泪了,也哭出声了,,,

...我想应该是无助的流泪,不舍的泪水,牵挂的泪水,.............................

早上开车上班时,开得有点快了,前面的出租车为了避让横穿马路的电瓶车...急刹车...

我跟在后面,,,也忙着急刹车,,眼睛余光看了一下后面的车子,晕,竟然还有一辆大巴...

还好,,,打方向盘,,只是轻微碰擦....

我拦着人家不让走,对方是出租车,耗不起的...嘿嘿

,报警处理,,但修理店的人说了,我追尾人家,,,,是我全责,,,呵呵,,
算了,,还是各自找各自的保险公司处理吧,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


======想不通为什么有那么多的横穿马路的人,不守交通规则的电瓶车????今天人家出租车急刹车停住了,,,,要是哪天刹不住了,,又是什么样的结果呢=============================

注意安全,,,,,,,,,,,,注意安全,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

真的很好喝,,好回味....

 

好酒啊....

"鸡蛋干"是一种真空包装的产品;

品味不错的,居然在老家的销量很好,看来还真是有名堂啊..

亲戚家的一姑父,平时就是想着发财,赚钱,赠大钱,,,

没办法,在农村,除了种西瓜,种各式各样的时节蔬菜,再搞点别的,也就没什么花样了...

据说,其在网上听说四川有一家祖传食品配方转让的,

到处打听好了之后,求财心切,直接打了2W大洋过去,,

没成想,,,还真的是遇到了骗子,,,钱没影了,什么食品配方也没拿到,

辛苦赚来的钱不能白白被骗,,,立马去四川找人去,,没想到,四川的骗子人也找不到了...

心中那个悔恨啊,,

算了吧,人都找不到了,就回来吧,,更没想到的是,人刚回来,四川地震了,,

哈哈,,也算小幸运了,,,

于是接着寻找致富门道,,,,呵呵,,还真找到了,上马鸡蛋干项目,请了个大学生来做技术,从山东运鸡蛋,再请了几个人手,

买了设备,,竟然一路顺利,,,,正全面发展呢,,

技术人员的费用要10W, 一个工人的年薪1W8,有十来号人呢,,,

看来生意不错............

真佩服这能人啊,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

时间过得快..(快成口头禅了)

春节长假过去了,走亲访友,吃了这家吃那家,

中午喝了,晚上继续喝...

这假放得,,,比上班还累,,,

按原定计划提前一天返回,休息调整....

大包小包的带了不少吃食回来,比较起来,每次回家都是带回去的少,带出来 的要多啊...

阳台挂满了,冰箱塞足了...

新年第一天上班,公司的红包也到手了,,

兴致来了,写点文字,记录下来,,,

新的一年正式开始了,,,,

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One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone. 　

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West - know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment - a moment that will define a generation - it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends - hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism - these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility - a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence - the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed - why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

"Let it be told to the future world...that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive...that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it]."

America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

Barack Obama’s Inaugural Address

My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land - a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America - they will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sanh.

Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions - that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act - not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

闲着没事干,来剪指甲,并修修整...

一不小心,一小块指甲掉本本键盘上了,,,

拿掉时,又没能拿出来,,

心里堵得慌啊,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

更急人的是,,竟然在一个键下面,影响了输入....恰巧在"8"下面,,,

这如何是好,,总不能不输入8啊,,,

拿工具,取小手电,,,终于发现了,,可是拿不出,,还掉里面了,,只是不影响使用,,,

于是作罢,,,写份邮件的工夫,就发现"Y"键又不好使了,,,

按以上方法再整整...又好用了,,可是小块指甲还是里面呢

短信中奖了,可是奖品还没到位,打10086好几次了,也没个准...

发个奖品就这么难么

 

最后期限是月末,,可是月末正好是春节期间啊,,如何领奖?

 

不管那么多,天天打电话确认一下哈...

不给奖品,就烦S丫的

 

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常看到网上的贴子,说某地的夜晚,不要走高速的两边,要走中间车道,还有乡间小路时..

 

因为,,常有些不法之人,故意放破胎器,,,也叫做匪钉,,

车子一经过,,立马破胎,,当你下来察看的时候,,蒙面之徒就现身了,,,更嚣张的是还有不蒙面的,

轻则钱财,重则人命...

没成想,,大清早的,我也遇上了,,就大前天的事,,两个钉子呢,,没有办法,,勉强开到公司门口..

 

一条胎报废了,,,TNND..........

 

昨天重点的事情就是换胎,,,,同一轴线的两条胎要一样的,不然不安全,,没办法,换两条新的,,

几百大洋没有,,,又是一笔额外的支出.....

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还好的,,,年终摸奖,,,中了个小奖,,,电瓷炉+剃须刀

快节奏的DJ音响起,,,来电了..

 

一看,,怎么是移动公司的电话?

联想到有说什么诈骗技巧的,,当你接听了,然后让你摁某个键,,,

再接着你的电话费就被转移了,,

所以接电话时想好别按什么键

可是一接电话,人家MM就直呼大名,奇怪了,,看来是真的啊,,,

听听再说,,原来是中奖了,,问原先的奖品不适合了,现在改别的了,问阿有意见?

 

没意见,没意见,,这中奖嘛,,有得中就行,还挑什么奖品啊

再确认一遍,,是真的,,

立马上网查询,看来是千真万确的,,

啊,,,,我也中奖了啊,,,,,,,,,,,,

真是新年新气象

摘自:http://bbs.hasea.com/thread-296124-1-1.html

 

火车票的辨别
介绍火车票细节一是普及客票知识，二是每一个要点都可以作为辨认火车票是否真实的依据。

目前可见的铁路售票系统为5.0版本，出售的票为粉红色软纸票和淡蓝色的磁卡票。

以粉红纸票为例说明车票元素含义，请看图示：



A 票号：
表明对于某台售票窗口或终端连续售票的编号，由字母和6位数字组成。有时字母前方还有数字，一般表示售票窗口编号。

Q 始发站和终到站：
行程400千米下为魏碑体，400千米以上为黑体。注意在通票中终到站并不是您首先下车的站。

C 车次：您选择的具体车次。注意在通票中是您第一次乘坐的车次。请您注意方向箭头的走向和位置。

D 座位号或者铺号：
对于大部分绿皮车和空调列车：1号座位肯定靠窗，以“0”“4”“5”“9”结尾的号数也靠窗。对于列车长办公席所在的车厢以“3”“4”“8”“9”结尾的号数靠窗。
一般列车：
窗｜5 6 7｜过｜8 9｜窗
窗｜0 1 2｜道｜3 4｜窗
有列车长办公席的车厢排列如下：
窗 ｜9 0 1 ｜过｜ 2 3 ｜窗
窗 ｜4 5 6 ｜道｜ 7 8 ｜窗

对于一部分动车组列车：
一等座号车厢，靠窗座位的号码均为“4的倍数”或者“4的倍数＋1”。
二等座号车厢为：

窗｜4  5｜过｜6  7 8｜窗
窗｜9  0｜道｜1  2 3｜窗
（动车组车型较多，情况均不一致）

因为车型较多较复杂，以上信息仅供参考。


B 售票点类型：
京A：北京站；京B：北京西站；京D：北京北站；京E：客票管理中心（位于北京西站主楼上）；京F：丰台站；京AD：北京站的代售点；京BD：北京西站的代售点。北京南不用字母代替。

R 经由：只有通票才有会这个部分，显示了您始发和终到站之间所经过车站的简称，位于括号中。

S 换乘方式：只有通票才有会这个部分。显示了您中转后换乘的方式，可以有“普客到底”、“普快到底”、“特快到底”三种选择。

P 开车日期和时刻：注意跨零点车次的日期归属，以开车时间确定日期，实行24小时制。

E 票价：由人民币符号和数字组成，数字精确到分。

F 车型以及中转站：表明您第一次乘车时的车型还有通票中的换乘站，通常等级的格式为：是否空调 + 席别 + 加快 + 是否卧铺。对于签证票，只打印签证类型。对于中转签证或中途下车签证且需要补差价的票，则打印新席别和等级与原等级差

G 有效期：注意是您最终到达车站用时的期限（因为您可能中途下车或者换乘），而不是说这张票在几天之内都可以从始发站坐车。

H 学生票则显示“学”，还有“孩”、“团”、“残”“返”等类型。

I 底纹和水印：对光可以看到“中国铁路”“CR”和铁路标志的底纹和水印。真票侧面对光看的时候有那种反光的中国铁路的标志，假票则没有。

J 条码部分：真票的条形码是不一样的，假票的条形码都是一样的。(一般购买多张票才有比较)

K 车站代码：前5位为车站码，接后2位为售票方式码，售票方式码编码范围00 - 99（00 - 09 车站发售；10 - 19 预约预订；20 - 29 代售；30 - 39 自动售票；40 - 49 备用）。8 – 10位为售票窗口码，3位数字，售票窗口码编码范围001 - 255（1 - 200 售票、退票、预约预订窗口；201 - 255 管理窗口，对于售票方式码为 20 - 29 的，窗口号通常为代售处编号）

L  11~14位是售票记账日期（不完全是发售日期，可能比发售日要晚一天）。

M  15－21位是车票号码，应该和左上角的红色数码票号一样。

N 校验码。

O 最后四位是里程数。

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